OK so for those people who don't want to read this post because I will be venting!!! Then don't:)
So I think that I might scream the next time I hear "It is a boy thing" when in reference to my boys. Please say "wow, you have your hands full with those 2 boys" or "they are 2 crazy boys, why can't you keep control of them" or "you know I am sure that there is medicine that might help" or "you are not a very good mom when you can't control your boys and mine are angels and don't ever do what your boys are doing" I know you are thinking it!!!!
I am the first to admit that they are crazy boys and yes they don't listen that well, but please be honest and stop saying "It is a boy thing" when your boys or the other boys around are not doing the same thing. I know that you are trying to be nice, but it is a tad more insulting then you think.
Ya, I know that my boys are very excited about life and about everything that goes on around them. And yes they don't listen that well and they misbehave a lot and I curse their behavior a lot, but they are my boys I love them more that anything and I am trying my best to guide them in the right direction and steer all of the energy that they have in a positive way.
So thank you for your friendly way of saying..."you are a bad mom and your boys are out of control." I will keep that in mind!